“And [then] you see something that’s [as] horrific as when a bomb goes off and you lose some really close friends. And you’re angry and you’re upset. The potential thoughts that go through your brain for revenge that quickly… I think the values, for me anyway, are that it’s not right.”
As Roth explains, revenge should be used with moral limitations.
“I mean yes, revenge sounds good. [But it’s] revenge in the sense of capturing those responsible, putting them before a judge and letting the judge decide. But as far as going out [being the judge ourselves] and murdering those or anyone else who we think might be involved, that’s not right. We know what right is. And we know what wrong is.”
He paused. When he continued, he took on a stern tone.
“One of our core values is honor. And how are you honoring the soldiers who were killed? Your buddies who died… How is killing these people honoring them? Try to explain that one. Try to connect that dot.”
He spoke about the strides that have been made in the Army since Vietnam. To this day, many Vietnam veterans still do not talk about that war. The horrors remain hidden from spouses, children, friends and co-workers to this day. Even Desert Storm -- a war that seems to have gone so smoothly that it’s hard to imagine any American soldiers were even killed -- has its share of troubled veterans.
“Every time we had a critical incident in Iraq, we would have a Critical Incident Debrief. Anybody who was involved with whatever took place came before the chaplain as a group. Not individually, as a group, they talked about what happened. They were able to express their feelings: Anger, frustration, crying, indifference.
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“…It was everybody together. So the young soldiers could learn from the leaders and hear what they were thinking. And the leaders could listen to the young soldiers and hear what they were thinking. If after this session, there were one or two soldiers who still had issues, they were singled out for further help.”
If a soldier were shaken up enough, he would be on "stand down," prevented from going out on patrols. That soldier would remain on base to perform administrative duties or maintenance until he got further help and was ready to join his team.
“When the soldier was ready, 99% of the time he’d go back out and join his buddies. Because he always felt like ‘my buddies are out there and I’m not with them.’”
Other soldiers mentioned the comradery, especially when talking about the difficulties they faced in Iraq. To them, the important thing to remember is that they were all going through the same thing. They all understood the stress of the danger so they felt uninhibited talking to one another.
This is a big change from the Vietnam War. According to Glynn, the mentality in Vietnam among the soldiers was “If you were complaining about the stress, somehow it made you less manly. You know, you’re just whining so suck it up.”
Even though strides have been made by the military to understand combat stress, this latest incident reminds us of the importance of lending our support to the military. It’s important to not falter in the esteem we hold for our military.